Unity Means The End of Love
In order for there to be love expressed, there must be at least two nodal individuals, two identities, two persons. Love involves exchanges. If the identity is merged in Oneness of the Supreme Brahman, Nirvana, there is no more love possible, as there is no more individuals.
In terms of spiritual psychology, entering the bramhajyoti, the undifferentiated spiritual status, it is like suicide. It is like burning down the house to avoid paying taxes. It is like sticking one's head in the spiritual sand. It is a type of fatalistic cowardism, obscurantism. It is denial of life, denial of love, denial of everything out of frustration due to dissatisfaction with the limited material sphere of activities and consciousness. It is the last trap of Maya.
We came to the material world to play at being ourselves the Supreme Being, and when that fails, we seek to end our identity. That